Do we really have to do that?!
Traditions you DON’T have to do at your wedding.
Weddings are deeply personal celebrations of love and commitment, and as times change, so do wedding traditions. When you think of Alabama, history or tradition may come to mind, but today's couples are increasingly choosing to break away from outdated customs that no longer resonate with their values and preferences. From skipping the bouquet toss to reimagining the cake-cutting ceremony, there are plenty of alternatives to consider. Brittany B Events will help you explore non-traditional alternatives for your wedding and offer fresh ideas to make your special day uniquely yours.
Cutting the cake or sweets table
The traditional cake cutting ceremony symbolizes the couple's first act of unity as a married couple. However, with the rise of alternative dessert options like cupcakes, donuts, or even dessert bars, many couples are choosing to forgo this tradition altogether. Instead, consider a sweet alternative like a dessert buffet where guests can indulge in an array of treats or a fun dessert-themed photo booth for added entertainment.
Bouquet toss alternative
Weddings are celebrations of love's many forms. The Anniversary Dance is a heartwarming addition that embodies this sentiment. All couples join the dance floor as the DJ announces years of marriage. The last pair, alongside the newlyweds, receives the bridal bouquet—a touching tribute to lasting love. This welcomes couples of all backgrounds, fostering unity and inspiration. The final couple serves as a symbol of enduring love, inspiring others, and blessing the newlyweds with hopes for a lifetime of happiness. This can also be a fun way to incorporate a special moment for the families both bride and groom are joining. Brides can dance with their father-in-loves and Grooms can dance with their mother-in-loves. These special moments can add depth and meaning to wedding celebrations, reminding us that love knows no bounds and is always worth celebrating.
Non-Traditional Wedding Party Roles
Gone are the days when wedding parties were strictly divided along gender lines, with bridesmaids on one side and groomsmen on the other. Modern couples are embracing inclusivity and diversity by mixing up their wedding party or opting for non-traditional roles like "best woman" or "man of honor." Choose the people who are closest to your heart, regardless of gender, and let them stand by your side as you say "I do."
microwedding
In recent years (during and post COVID), a new trend has emerged in the world of weddings—one that prioritizes intimacy, personalization, and meaningful connections over grandeur and extravagance. Micro weddings, a small-scale celebration that focuses on quality over quantity. Micro weddings typically involve fewer than 50 guests, creating an intimate atmosphere where every guest plays a significant role in the celebration. At the heart of every micro wedding is a deep sense of connection and intimacy—a celebration of love that transcends size and scale. As couples exchange vows surrounded by their closest friends and family, they embark on a journey together, knowing that their wedding day was a true reflection of their love, values, and commitment to one another.
Your wedding day should be a reflection of your love story and unique personalities, free from the constraints of outdated traditions. By breaking away from convention and embracing fresh ideas, you can create a celebration that truly embodies who you are as a couple. We can explore so many different possibilities to make your wedding day uniquely yours.